This question was asked of me last week by a friend with whom i share many sexual fantasies.
Could you be friends with, date, or even marry an adult film/porn star?
The first hint of an answer that formed was “Yes!” When most people think of “porn star”, they think many partners, many openings, many fluids, many feelings, and while that maybe very true, before every session is taped, the actor must me tested for any STDs/STIs. So I’m safe there. I thought of the male actors who had become my favorites over the years. I thought of their bodies and their faces and the way they reacted with their partner(s) on film… But then I thought, they are actors; and while some may say they really enjoy a session or two, they are doing their job- acting.
So what’s the deal here? From what I know and have heard, many Adult film stars aren’t looking for a relationship. There’s too much to put into it. When in a relationship, most individuals only want to have sex with the person they are in a relationship with. If you are a porn star, that’s out of the question. I’d imagine that they’d also want support(instead of Jealousy).
So here’s my final answer… for now:
If an adult film star did want to be friends or in a relationship, I would was Yes! First of all, If they couldn’t have sex with me, I could always watch one of their films. Secondly, I could be their “guinea pig”. If they need to try a new technique, I’m here and it’s free! Thirdly, they would have 100% of my support. Although I may get jealous at times, I don’t think that I’d have the guts to show my body to the world and be the fantasy of thousands, even millions of viewers. So I must commend all adult film stars for that.
Think differently? Speak your Mind.
Love for All,
Mika
Before I went Blind– and right after my divorce fourteen years ago I started watching porn–because I thought it was my fault my ex-husband was seeing women during our 20 year marriage.
Laughing–I thought porn would be a good “learning tool”
I decided if I ever had another man–I could do for him anything any other woman would do. (Of course I’d felt exactly the same way during the marriage)
I wanted to learn every technique and every secret possible.
What I learned–was that the things men did in porn–was very exciting to ME– Laughing–
Yes–I could be the friend of a porn star.
No doubt I wouldn’t be having sex with him–but I would be interested in his trade!
But then I believe in diversity when it cums to friendships!
Have a Great Day and be good to YOURSELF!
~SpunkyLady~
Thanks for the comment!
I think that by now, you know that it would be pretty hard to learn many techniques only by watching. Especially in cases where the actress is almost impossibly acrobatic and very flexible. I don’t know about you, but I can’t put my leg behind my head.
Right now, I’m really interested in a couple of techniques, such as g-spot stimulation. I recently purchased a film called “I Love Cytheria”- and believe me… right now, I’m really loving cytheria! In the very last scence a group of stars gather together and have one, big, friendly session(which I am very envious of). During the session, they give the g-spot stimulation technique. As for myself… let’s just say it works! Thanks again.